From the beginning of the world many have criticized the Sanatan Vedic Dharma (Hindu Dharma), Holy texts of Hindus, Deities, Saints, arrangement of society according to the Classes and stages of life (Varṇashramvyavastha), Spirituality etc. These criticisms are spread in the society through speeches, seminars, books, newspapers, banter etc. Due to the prevalent way of teaching, most people do not realize that, ‘it is a criticism’! Many believe this inappropriate criticism to be true; while others even though they realize the criticism to be inappropriate fail to debate it due to lack of counter arguments. Sometimes incorrect thoughts are conveyed by the learned or scholars because of their ignorance.
1. Religious observance of ‘Vata-savitri’ is clumsy and foolish !
On Jyeshth Pourṇima, about 100-125 women collected near a huge banyan tree near a river bank with articles for ritualistic worship. After the priest’s recitation of the ritual, the women began circumnavigating the tree with a thread. Thereafter, they kept a lit lamp and incense sticks,fruits and other offerings in front of the tree. They gave offerings to the priests. All the women doing this ritual of chastity were married.
1A. Criticism : The modern people say that, ‘The religious observance of ‘Vata-savitri’, which entails a prayer, ‘let me have the same husband for all the births’, is clumsy and foolish. It is completely irrelevant to the present times. Abolish it!’ Modern women who consider individual freedom paramount, have tension upon hearing the word ‘Vata-sāvitrī’,their face turns red and their foreheads begin to throb.
A curious person : Aren’t these women praying for having the same husband in all births foolish?
Gurudev : Apart from the women influenced by the Western Culture, all the others observe this religious observance.
A curious person : Amongst these women many of them would be ill-treated by their husbands and subjected to quarelling.
1B. Counter argument
Gurudev : Have you ever tried to find out what is in the subconscious mind of the women observing the ritual of Vata-savitri with complete faith for years? These women observe the Vata-savitri so that there is an improvement in the behaviour of their husbands who are with them in this lifetime as per their destiny. And as a result their lives would become pleasant. As they believe in many births; so even if they have it suffer in the current birth, they believe it to be a result of their deeds in the previous births. Thus, they say that, ‘let us endure this suffering and finish it in this birth itself; God will definitely give the fruits of abiding by Dharma in the future births’. So naturally they have the strength to face any situation. It is not in our culture to leave the present husband and marry someone else or even to ask for anything else. There is a verse in Hindu marriage ‘समानी व आकूतिः समाना हृदयानि वः । समानमस्तु वो मनो यथा वः सुसहासति . It means, ‘Let your resolve be the same. Let your hearts be one. Let your minds blend; thus by virtue of this let your work happen in communion. Due to this the husband and wife gain strength to face any adversity and are able to become expansive and compatible. They become more sacrificing This itself is the core of our Hindu Culture.
Who is superior; a woman who is patient with the ill-treatment of the husband or the one who fights over petty issues; has a divorce and marries another man?
Another point is that a woman can surrender everything to one person alone and can truly love only once. Irrespective of his behaviour; she is not drawn to another man. In reality a woman remarries only out of revenge and not out of love for the other man! The Hindu women are not foolishly self-centred with the thought that, ‘I will be happy if I marry someone else’. Does suffering end if one marries another man? Here, there would be new set of sorrows! How many modern women have become happy by marring different men in their present birth? A wife loves the God in her husband and not his body; hence she calls him ‘patī-paramēshwar’. This woman is a patī-vratā (A chaste and faithful wife). There are many tales of the valour of a chaste woman. Savitri brought back her husband’s life from Yama on the strength of her chastisity. This Vowed religious observance symbolically worships her chastity. Modern women cannot even fathom about the strength of this chastity. The sapt-padīin a marriage symbolises seven births. These seven vows are taken for complete faith in one another. How will the modern women who change their husbands like clothes know this?’
– His Holiness Gurudev Dr. Kateswamiji (Weekely Sanatan Chintan, 12.6.2008)
2. Rajneesh, ignorant about the importance of Vowed religious observances and fasts !
2A. Criticism : ‘Hunger grows even more upon supressing it and people eat inedible things like flowers etc. A seeker living in the forest observes a fast. His friend wishes to send him a gift; so he wonders what to send as the seeker is fasting. So he sends him a bunch of flowers. The hunger gets so intense that the seeker eats the flowers. – Rajneesh (Reference : What? From ‘Material fulfilment to immolation?’)
2B. Counter argument : Rajneesh is pointing weapons towards vowed religious observances and fasting. I have friends who have observed Nirjala Ekadashi, that is, fasted without even having water for the past 20 years. They say that they start getting intense feeling about the fast. a day prior to Ekadashi I. “I am not supposed to eat on the night prior to the fast so I don’t eat anything. The day of the fast goes by in complete Bliss and happiness.” Among the Jain community, they fast for a month only on warm water. A person inexperienced in fasting may feel hungry; but on the day of the fast he can handle the hunger with endurance. Thus,he does not even remember food on that day. He experiences bliss with the thought that, ‘I am observing the vowed religious observance and my bad nature is being surrendered at the Holy Feet of God’.
As opposed to this, when a person who does not fast, remains hungry for a day he ends up being morose and tensed. His enthusiasm reduces and he is not able to concentrate on other work. The same incident bestowing bliss gives sorrow if the perspective and temperament are not changed.
When people become famous they feel that they can speak on any topic without any background knowledge and others should listen. Rajneesh is one amongst them. – His Holiness Gurudev Dr. Kateswamiji